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Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Aug 6 2:23pm | Replies (42)

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I know it seems like sidestepping the question, but there are so many behavioral variations that predicting the exact nature of the disease progression is impossible. We may categorize the cases according to some published or word of mouth information, but planning for the future is very challenging. We need to keep communicating and trying new strategies, but ultimately, it's a guessing game. Paradoxes and ironies are plentiful, while we caregivers keep trying to figure things out. Sometimes it just plain feels like a losing battle, sad to say.

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I totally agree that it is impossible to pinpoint what the ALZ umbrella really covers. Each patient is different and nothing is predictable. I think that is why it is so maddening. Children grow up in a steady pattern of stages, but there doesn't seem to be that kind of steady progression in this disease. Since there is no winning outcome possible, I'm afraid it is a losing battle. All we can do is make the best of each day for ourselves and our loved one and call it "good enough." Thank you for your response.