minajo,
I'm not in this group but with the enormous extended family I have (87 first cousins), I have several relatives who suffer from seizures, including a brother.
I am truly sorry your daughter has such challenges, as you must also have, parenting her. I deeply feel for you.
Have you asked your daughter's doctor(s) about TMS - Transcranial Magnetic Stimulation? Over the past four years, I've completed three cycles of TMS to treat severe depression. Several anti-depressants (I've tried 12-14) worked for a while but not permanently. TMS is noninvasive and it's brought me back to life three times! From my understanding, TMS was originally used to treat seizures and it was "discovered" that it took away patients' depression as well. The description you give of your daughter definitely sounds as though she's a very depressed girl. Some of her medications may help, but it seems as though taking too many medications may be harming her. I took Lamictal with Cymbalta to treat depression and it didn't cause me to be more depressed. In any event, talk with your daughter's physicians about TMS. Also research TMS to familiarize yourself with it. I wish you and your daughter the best life has to offer! May she heal and bring your family peace and relief!