Do you have a friend that may want to do day trips that don’t interest your husband? I just spent a few days on a road trip with a lifelong friend and it was full of joy and relaxation. She’s married and her husband didn’t mind at all. They always take trips both together and separately. If not a trip, maybe even just a community craft class or something with a friend just to mix it up a little. Maybe even just lunch with a friend. Hope it works out for you.