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How do you deal with the Guilt of placing someone in Assisted Living?

Caregivers: Dementia | Last Active: Jul 30, 2024 | Replies (13)
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@jayniep

I know. After my mom died I made it a point to visit my dad for a few days EVERY MONTH FOR 12 YEARS! He lived just 2 hours away. When the rest of the family talked him into assisted living at the age of 96 the guilt took over. I was unable to participate having just had heart surgery. He died at the age of 98 two years ago and I still can’t let go of the guilt. Maybe I need therapy.

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Scott R L | @scottrl | Jul 22, 2024

Woulda, coulda, shoulda only goes so far.

You did a magnificent job caring for your father.
Don't feel bad because you aren't superhuman.

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verol65 | @verol65 | Jul 30, 2024

You did what was in your power to do, @jayniep ! Do go to therapy to deal with your feelings of guilt. Big hug!

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