@msmith49 - Good morning and please be prepared for a long answer. I have a lot of perspective that might help you work through your not-uncommon pre-surgical angst.
I had what's called an ACDF at C4-7. That was 18 months ago. Today - all my cervical-related symptoms are gone, I feel 99.5% fully recovered, my frontal scar is nearly invisible, and I'm so happy I had that procedure done. Now the details.
The "A" means they come in through the front. Seems counter-intuitive but it works well. The "C" means cervical area. The "D" means discectomy, and the
"F" means fusion. Let's talk about the D and the F.
If your cervical spine is damaged, collapsing, significantly mis-aligned, or changing due to advanced arthritis - one result is your disks between some vertebrae literally break-down and need to be replaced. No amount of PT or drugs will repair that damage once it's occurred. Surgery is the only option.
The neurosurgeon (not an orthopedic surgeon) literally removes the old damaged disks and inserts new disks that the doctors call a cage. Each cage is custom-sized to work for you and mine are perforated to better allow new bone growth to bind the disks to my existing spinal column.
Now the "F". When putting in new cages over several levels of the cervical spine - the spine in that area is weakened until new bone growth allows the patient to return to normal life. There is a period post-surgery where the cervical spine needs extra protection. For me - we decided to install "hardware" which is two plates that screw together the four levels of vertebrae. These two plates assure me of adequate neck stability during the initial six-week recovery period and well beyond. I wore a plastic neck brace (no big deal and not worth worrying about that! You become accustomed to the brace very quickly, I found) for six weeks. NOTE: Sometimes patients don't want the hardware installed and in that case they need to wear a neck brace for a much longer period while new bone growth occurs.
I have not had knee replacements but I have had lower lumbar surgery and I can compare the two by saying the cervical work was a "4" and the lumbar work was a "10".
Please continue to express your concerns. That process can be helpful in undertanding what to expect. What other perspectives can I share?
Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. I really appreciate your explanation and it does help to put me more at ease. I am having the same problem with L4-5 but am going to try injections for it first. My neck is the main thing right now as a high risk of parallelization. I think you explained it better than the actual doctor. Although, I am not sure what all they said after I heard surgery, cages, plates, screws, rods, fusing, and one wrong move right now and I would be like Christopher Reeves. My mind was going a million miles a minute after that. They wanted to do the surgery right away but I postponed it until as long as they would allow to be in September. I am trying my best to think positively about it but I have a lot of pain due to many other health issues so that was and is a huge concern. Again I truly appreciate you taking the time to type out how yours went. If I think of anything else I will come back to ask if that is ok? I usually think of things as I am trying to sleep at night. lol.