@dbeshears1 Debbie, it's so nice to see the Spotlight shine on you! Watching your evolution of growth and acceptance on Connect has been wonderful to follow. I know you've put a lot of work into it and it hasn't come easy. You remind me a lot of myself in many ways. We share similar journeys right down to the 7 years, job loss, and still having active husband's leaving us in the dust. Haha! My hubby bikes, kayaks and coaches HS basketball. I cheer him on, like you cheer on your husband, while having my own physical therapy exercises, daily stretches and cardio to stay physically active. He mows and weed whacks, I take care of the flowers....it seems balanced to us, too!

Please be very proud of how far you've come, and for continuing to problem solve and strategize your way through a reimagined life of focusing on what you can do and not looking back. I was once told by a wise doctor that if you want a new kitchen you have to demo the old. Rebuilding mindset takes perseverance and bravery. Keep up the good work and thank you for helping many others on Connect with your experience, support and optimism.