Hi @baa
I really do hope that this new dosage of Lamictal works well for you. Lamictal was the AED I tried that had the fewest side effects.
Have you considered having some support from a neuropsychologist? I am with mine since 2019 when I was diagnosed with epilepsy. She has helped me a lot and continues to help me. I can well remember the first two years of epilepsy treatment and how stressed I was and also stressed my husband. Now well this vicious circle. My neuropsychologist also did some private sessions with my husband at the beginning. Have a thought about it!
Wishing you all the best!
Chris (@santosha)