Joe,
I was recently (december) diagnosed with 3 + 3 and asked for a decifer score. That was diagnosed an mildly aggressive cancer, both done at a local facility. I was unhappy with the Urologist (very pushy for surgery) so I made an appointment with Mayo for radiation in the future consultation. I asked Mayo to recheck the biopsey slides and they diagnosed 3 + 4 and semi aggressive cancer so I scheduled treatment for this September. My point is to make sure your cancer is 3 + 3 and find out how aggressive it is before making any decisions. Whatever treatment you decide to partake be decisive that it is the treatment YOU want to do. Every treatment comes with the possibility a side effect. Sorry I did not read the whole thread so I apologise if someone already said what I said.