Hi @mads20. My daughter (41) had similar issues and has had 2 IUDs over the past 10 years. She’s sitting here visiting with me right now and I asked her if she has suggestions for you. Incidentally the IUD has helped her endometriosis and excess bleeding.
It can take time for your body to get used to having this small device in your uterus due to the hormonal changes. You won’t actually feel the IUD once it’s in place but the first few days after insertion can a little uncomfortable, much like having period cramps.

The IUD will slowly release hormones which may bring about changes in your period during the first few months. You may have some ongoing spotting or cramping but it lessens over time. My daughter is very sensitive to hormones and was not able to take the Pill because of the side effects. She is able to tolerate the hormone levels with the IUD much better.

My daughter is also recommending, if your practitioner hasn’t already done so, to take a couple of Advil or Ibuprophen an hour to an hour and a half before your appointment. It can help with the discomfort. Better yet, if you can speak to your gynecologist before your appointment, see if you can get a medication to help to relax your cervix before placement. The placement goes very quickly!!

Wishing you all the best with your appointment. Why does women’s plumbing have to be so difficult?! ☺️