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My Bone Marrow Transplant (BMT/SCT) story: Will you share yours?
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Well, I got news from my sister, that my cat died early this morning. Honestly, what a way to start the day. I am day 91. My sister who called me is the one who had ovarian cancer. In my journey through this MDS, this is my roughest part so far. I could not be with my cats and sadly, they did not get the attention they usually got from me. I realize in our lives, that some things happen that we can never know or plan for. Our bodies have issues. Cancer and so much to walk through.
Some people find it odd when people say their pets are like family. My Hazel cat was a fluffy white girl with one blue and one green eye. Only a 10 pounder, up until I left for treatment, my other fluffy cat chased her. I had a cat video camera, so i have watched her and the other cat Simba get to be more friends.
My caregiver reminded me i am not supposed to be around pets just now. To anyone who has pets, give them an extra bit of love today.
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I’m so sorry for your loss. After my BMT, I missed my furry babies so much. When I did get to go home, my dog didn’t want anything to do with me. My feelings were so hurt because all I wanted was to love on her. My cats were so happy to see me. Eventually, my dog came around. Pets are family and plus they are good for your mental health while you are recovering. Lots of hugs to you and keep the faith.
@katgob Good morning, I am so very sorry for your loss. I understand your grief and know how deeply it is felt. It is painful and difficult, especially at this time in your life. I hope you can take a wee bit of comfort from the years of love and comfort you gave each other. You are a good cat mom. What a beautiful girl she was! You will see your other sweet kitty soon. Sending hugs….
I’m so sorry for your loss. At one time we had five cats (when my child was nine, we did volunteer work at a shelter and there you have it). All have since passed and we miss having a cat. I told my husband after he recovers from stem cell transplant we can get a kitten.
Bless you and the memory of your dear kitty.
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Aww, my dear I’m so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful cat! Lookit that sweet face. My heart is breaking for you, @katgob. I truly understand the emotional bond we have with our pets. They are a source of unconditional love and leave a hole in our hearts 100 times their size when they pass away.
This has to be even more stressful for you knowing that you couldn’t be there for her. Your caregiver is right, you really shouldn’t be around pets right now. They are a source of bacteria that should be avoided during your early days of transplant, especially not cleaning a litter box. I hope your sister will spend some more quality time with your other kitty because she will surely miss her little buddy.
Sending you a gentle hug, my friend. 😢