I should probably make this a longer comment so as not to sound cynical. But, it basically comes down to how you feel and think each day about yourself, not how THEY feel. Be in control and be content with yourself. Dont get caught in the trap that you’re getting attention because you’ve got cancer and it feels good while it’s happening. After the momentary cheerleading and feigned affection by some, and their need to offer uninformed advice has past, you might feel like you have a hangover from all the attention. Working on one’s identity with the challenges ahead is more empowering and avoids the “ attention hangover.”