Good luck to you and your husband. A friend of mine is also in the process of qualifying for a stem cell transplant so we r beginning to navigate this path as well. Where I live in south central Kansas we have an agency called Southcentral Kansas Aging and Disability, if you have something like that where you live you might reach out as they have people who can come to the home to help with care giving for your spouse and helping you with household chores. Good luck I pray all goes well for you.