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I'm a cherry-picker. In almost every post, I'll find something that has me smile and say, "Aha, so you, too!" This morning you said something, Ed (@edsutton), that hit me like a sledge. When you wrote …
"I'm embarrassed to admit how fragile my mood can be. Pain and negative memories seem to go hand-in-hand. I'm really good at feeling lonely and sorry for myself! This has less to do with actual pain (which I can mostly control) than with the feeling that I'm hedged in by the possibility of pain."
… I had no choice but to sit quietly for a few moments and consider your words. Because of my daytime nature, people often tell me, "Ray, you're such a happy guy," leaving me thinking, "If only you knew …"
Years of experience—learning my personal pain's tricks of the trade—have taught me ways of sublimating my pain, not denying its presence but reducing it to a momentary nonentity.
Thank you, Ed, for your words this morning. I hope we cross trails again soon.
Cheers!
Ray (@ray666)
Ed, even when you aren’t feeling well, you leave us with tips. Thank you, and I wish you a speedy recovery! Cindy