I have looked after my wife for about 4/5 years now (lost track of time) and have much to same experiences. I also have chimes on all exterior doors and windows so I know when they are opened. I do all the chores and help her dress. I keep track of clothes and make sure clean undies and socks are out every day that way I can schedule the laundry to make sure we don't run out. She always talks about getting out ("how to I get out of here")and only once so far have the neighbours got involved. When I work in the garden I have to be very careful as she will take the front exit if I am in the rear and visa versa. In her mind she is way back in her childhood which I am learning must have not been good at times. I am finding this type o /arf communication helps me to get things out please bear with me. Life changes everyday and we must adapt any way we can. It is hard though when your loved one does not know who you are and gets mad when you are only trying to help. I do take advantage of the quiet times, such as now, and give thanks when I can finally get to bed at the end of each day. Stay happy!