Stage 4b oligometastatic is curative. Deep remission. Unfortunately, I am high volume. I had my recent checkup and I am still < 0.100. I also meet with our :Life with cancer" group and I was encouraged and also discouraged by the meeting. Basically, they told me that I need to accept that the cancer will return some day. They do not know when but it is inevitable that everyone becomes resistant (castrate resistant). Resistance occurs because you already have resistant cancer cells that are not killed and left over after radiation and or chemotherapy. My strategy was also the throw the kitchen sink at it "Carpet Bomb" the cancer with radiation to the spin and ribs and enduring 10 chemotherapy cycles instead of 6. I told my wife I did not want to leave any resistant cancer cells behind and give them a chance at returning and causing resistance sooner rather than later. I had quadruplet therapy not triplet. Radiation, ADT (Eligard), ARSI (Darolutamide), 10 cycles of chemotherapy (Docetaxel), and Xgeva injections for my bones every 6 weeks. I did 22 infusions of Zometa before being switched to Xgeva. I do not want to accept that I will become Castrate Resistant.