← Return to AARP says...

Discussion

AARP says...

Chronic Pain | Last Active: 2 days ago | Replies (23)

Comment receiving replies
@sueinmn

I'm not exactly sure how to participate in this discussion. Let me begin by saying that in 90% of medicine there is no absolute right or wrong answer.

I am a graduate and permanent member of a pain management clinic. It did change my life.

Here are some things I learned, in no particular order.

There is acute pain like from surgery or an injury, that is appropriately treated with medication to "get through it".

There is chronic pain, from a disease process, that worsens over time. Pain meds may or may not help it.

There is chronic pain that is part physical and part mental. This is where PMR can help.
In PMR or PMT we learn to recognize the different kinds of pain and treat each one appropriately.
For example, fibromyalgia pain and spine pain are a combination of pain, sensitivity, fatigue and other factors. NO ONE medication or strategy can manage it. So imagery, exercise, PT,and some medication is combined.

Pain from metastatic cancer is a whole different thing. Controlling the primary pain becomes the first goal, but many PMR strategies may be added to reduce the amount of meds required so one remains able to participate in life.

Some time ago big pharma "sold" the theory that "all pain can be managed with enough of the right drugs".
We now know that is not true, and as usually happens, instead of alkowing doctors to make a knowledgeable case by case decision, regulators jumped off a cliff to say "all opioids are bad".
Now there needs to be a middle ground.
But PLEASE don't say all pain management clinics are bad/wrong/worthless. That is equally incorrect as saying "all pain can be managed by drugs"

Work with your providers to find that middle ground. Work with your legislators turn medical decisions back to the professionals.

And keep an open mind about alternative approaches.

Jump to this post


Replies to "I'm not exactly sure how to participate in this discussion. Let me begin by saying that..."

Thanks for your input!

I understand What you're saying but I have a problem with it. I have chronic pain from having my chest.Cracked twice in five months. I also have.
Pain from having marfan syndrome and having my ligaments be very lax, causing a lot of joint issues. I have had over twenty surgeries and I don't believe that the pain is in my head.

They have made it so if you ask for pain medicine they write you up like you're Some kind of junkie.

I'm not saying it should be handed out like candy but the people who need it, need it.

I also don't believe that the pain is in your head.
I have found over the years.That pain cannot be controlled by your head. Physical pain is physical pain.

I appreciate your input greatly, But I am in physical pain every single day. No one can tell me it's all in my head.

@sueinmn I agree with you, Sue!

I have fibromyalgia, osteoarthritis, etc. but over the years I have built up a high threshold to pain so often turn down pain medication prescription offers. I prefer to manage without medication because I have fatty liver disease as well and family history of liver and pancreatic cancers/diseases so am afraid of making my liver more toxic. But doctors get frustrated with me when I stop using any pain medication they prescribe and I get labelled as “difficult”.

Of course, that does not mean I am against all pain medication - or against others needing medication, especially after surgery or in the case of sudden acute pain. But for chronic pain I think one can build up tolerance - just as one can build up tolerance for medication dosage. Then again, it all boils down to sensitivity - what one person grades pain level as a 5 (often my case) another person could grade it as an 8 or higher, even over 10. 🤷🏼‍♀️

As you say, finding that middle ground is the key.