What now.

We talked about updating our wills. He has 3 children and I only have. I just found out that, he too, is very concerned she will get more than his kids and it has shocked me.

My thing is to leave all we accumulated together, including the house to him with the exception of things that may be family heirlooms like jewelry, china etc. These are things that I inherited through my Grandma and Mom, noting we accumulated during our marriage.

He agreed, to a point, since my daughter gets the heirlooms, each one of his children, including loon should get a minimum of $25,000 and a portion of the house after I am gone! That doesm't work for me so now I have been called greedy and he has walked off of discussions.

I knew something was going on. I don't know what to do to protect myself. The house is in both our names but I don't think it is right of survivorship, just when you sign a real estate contract with both John Smith and Sara Smith.