@ckdcaregiver I too want to add my welcome to you. @gingerw is on to a very great idea (team meeting). Unfortunately the players involved come from several facilities. Is there a social worker, patient care coordinator or some other titled professional at the facility where your mother is currently? This would be the person who could potentially arrange such a meeting (because they coordinate things on behalf of the patient and family). Most facilities have such a position and that person is responsible for setting up this type of meeting, review, care conference …etc. I used to do that in various facilities when I had various titles and wore various hats. It can be tedious getting the hang of the particular lingo used but make calls, ask questions. Sometimes the squeaky wheel does get the oil. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom as you negotiate on her behalf.