Gosh, that is really so disappointing and sad. I’m really sorry your daughter is doing that. I am not a parent - but the aunt and grandaunt of many. If I didn’t reach out, through texting, my guess is I’d never hear from them. I do try and be the change i want to see - so once in awhile I send out a hello text, or send them a joke or just say “hi I’m thinking of you,” but it doesn’t alleviate the hurt at feeling forgotten about or not counting. I know it’s not personal - it still makes me sad. It’s so wonderful you have very good friends!