Dear SusanEllen-
I'm sorry about your health problems.
It sounds like you will need professional guidance to find what is available. You might try the search link on this web site. < https://www.aginglifecare.org/ALCAWEB/ALCAWEB/What_is_Aging_Life_Care/What_you_need_to_know.aspx?hkey=9f537cde-78a3-466e-8b9b-2fb19ef78401&gt;