I have tried most options suggested by others...this has been the exception! I have not tried silicone gel sheeting...but will now. I have tried gels/ointments etc. Period underwear are not an option for me...they work well for mild urinary incontinence, but not an option for fecal incontinence.

Thank you Rubyslippers for the info & for including the link to the NIH.

Love & hugs to all who have replied & especially to those dealing with similar difficulties.