@kremer1 - Good morning. Let me have at your questions.
Yes - all presurgery bowel, bladder issues plus other sensations are 100% gone. As said, I still have some residual (but improving) tingling in my right thigh. I don't recall any other abdominal discomforts pre-surgery.
Yes, I had spondy in the lumbar region with stenosis throughout my spine. After much discussion, the surgeon and I decided on a three-part process: Cervical ACDF followed three months later by a two-part lumbar surgery using new titanium disks and titanium plates to properly secure the repaired spinal sections. We considered a "bigger" lumbar surgery from T10 - S1 but I felt that was too much for me to tolerate. We elected to do L2-5 and I'm rolling the dice on the surrounding spinal areas that show significant degeneration but were not surgically addressed.
There was never a discussion of titanium implants vs grafts. At some point, once I spent enough time with the surgeon gauging both his overall approach and strategy suggestions - I chose to just trust him and accept his surgical recommendations. I think my current condition suggests that was an acceptable strategy on my part.
I understand your dilemma. All spinal patients are faced with a very difficult decision! I saw that fork in the road as a personal risk management decision. What's riskier? Deferring surgery where I might delay to the point of developing permanent and irreversible nerve damage? Or actually having the surgery where there can be no certainty of outcome? You can ask a million questions yet still lack the perfect answer. At some point, you just have to chose and move forward.
You describe "some tingling" and you seem still quite active on exercise equipment. Those are all good signs that your issues are being managed successfully for now.
Sounds like my case. All disks are either herniated, bulging or replaced. For 20 years I had treatments of all kinds, surgery included 8 joint replacements, I'm 77 now, I am not perfect but without treatment I would have been worse; DDD keeps progressing. In 2012,
I became inoperable and was offered a morphine pump. The important point is that not to act you face the loss of nerve function, once that is gone, you don't get it back. Surgeries were a lot easier at 50 than at seventy. I agree about thoracic surgery. I didn't do that either, I think that is the hardest surgery. With each surgery, I had at least 5 disks done at once. My neck front was 12 hours. neck back 12 hours, lumbar spine 12 hours. I wish you good luck, these are not easy decisions to make. Get all the support you can get for yourself.