Hello, I will start by telling you ,that I am just starting on this chat -a-thon .so you will understand that my comment was short and sweet, ,but now I know someone is out there ,I will expand ,,not literally ,, I can only give personal experiences of offers of help ,Being a person who does not ask for help, I do manage my life quite well ,but there are occasions when a pair of hands ,a person to talk things over with ,or even someone to give me a hug. would have been acceptable . My way of self help ,is to get into the car and enjoy the countryside ,and some really good C.D' s , I.m here to stay ,,,hopefully ,so keep in touch .How is that for an offer of help .Ha Ha