My husband had a fibrous soft tissue sarcoma in his left shoulder discovered summer 2023. I understand how you feel. His scapula, ball/ joint, and part of his humorous was amputated. He in managing better than expected as we navigate a new normal. Praying for you both through the upcoming challenges. The Mayo Clinic was exceptional and worked so well as a team. Grateful to be able to go tthere. Sending positive support to you both.