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Finally! Finally someone has put into words what I think every day. Going to my pain specialist has now turned into a 10-15 minute appointment where she asks how I’ve been. I tell her that I’m in worse pain than when I first started seeing her. She types the words into her laptop. She then asks how I’m doing with my meds. I tell her it just doesn’t seem like they are helping very much, she again types. She then tells me she’s filling my prescriptions, I do my urine test, leave the treatment area, and make my appointment for sometime in two months. I just don’t understand how it can take me longer to fill out the registration stuff that we fill out online before the appointment than the actual appointment. I am so frustrated, and in so much pain it’s hard to get up out of chair, it’s hard to walk once I get up. Driving is becoming harder because of the lack of range of motion of my neck. I’ve told her this and she says nothing. I’m so tired of hearing nothing that I feel ridiculous if I say anything at all. It’s like all they want to do is get us in and out as quickly as possible. I guess they feel justified in this because, you know, they ARE filling our prescriptions. I see people so far worse than me and I think you know they deserve a quality of life and there has got to be someone who listens, is compassionate, and tries different approaches to tackle the pain. Heck, we all deserve a quality of life. It’s easy to forget that when you’re being shuffled through! I’m so tired of being part of the stigma associated with pain meds. It’s just not cool anymore. Please help me with any suggestions! Any advice on how to get through to my dr. would be so helpful!

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Jenny, I could be you writing about your sessions with pain management. My visits are mainly to get my pain pump adjusted or refilled. "Pain management" seems to be a misnomer. As you mentioned, the doc asks how you are (as does mine), then writes or types. In the eight months that I have been visiting my current "Pain management specialist", he has not once mentioned a possible different road to finding out why the pain pump is not providing relief. I finally said to him at our last session, "Don't you have a network of colleagues that you could reach out to and discuss my case. So far you have not been able to really help me". He finally said that he did know someone whom he does reach out to periodically and will speak to him about my baffling case. I go back to him next week. Any bets as to whether he actually spoke about my case to him?
I became more proactice recently, learning that I have to become my own, best advocate. I just had my old spinal cord stimulator removed since it had stopped working three years ago. Any guesses as to who made this decision? Yes, I did. Maybe you need to be a little more firm your pain doc. After all, she supposedly works for you. Ask her to reach out to her colleagues as I did. Worth a try. Right? I wish you all the best.

My pain management appts are the same.
Pain meds adjusted and refilled.
I’m still in pain on a daily basis with both of my feet hurting so badly that I can hardly walk at times.
Do t know what else to do either.