That hurts my heart to read. But I completely know that same pain. Not at the moment so much but more so when my home flooded and we were just in shock. Only my next door neighbor and I flooded. Everyone else around us were fine.
Only one neighbor brought us a meal. She was a sweet retired neighbor. I saw how much that helped because we didn’t have money to eat out. FEMA wasn’t there yet. That takes time. We’re in shock. Meals and any kind of help are so appreciated and important. I posted on Facebook if anyone wanted to help, this is what everyone needs. A few groups showed up and offered us needed help. It was beautiful.
Reaching out to the right people is key. Be patient. Maybe think of some different support groups in your area. They might be a helpful tool. Even if it is just for chat. You gotta meet the right people though.
I’ll be praying for comfort and peace.
God Bless you.