It's difficult for my mind to be healthy and my body to be so very sick. I don't know how many dozens of times I have to over-commit (and then need to cancel) to learn. I'm good for planning to have guests over... clean 4 days before ... shop and set table 3 days before ... finish cleaning and prep food 2 days before ... rest and small details one day before... cook and get myself ready day of. I have to do this. I suppose the last part is plan nothing for the day after as I will be useless except to rest. It all does suck--but I don't have the energy for anger. I use everything I have to live into this new normal. It does take planning. Hope good things for you. < 3
PS I have Granulomatosis with Polyangiitis (GPA)