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Like you say. Almost funny. My husband is so eager to dry the dishes that he will (when I’m not looking) start drying the dirty dishes before I can start washing. Spaghetti sauce all over a white dish towel, etc. I suppose there are worse things, and sometimes you just have to laugh. 😊

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Yes, true! And it's not a derisive laugh really, it's just kind of recognizing the folly that maybe teaches us that a lot of things in life are more important than our little irritations.

You know what's really ironic? She has always said she hates surprises. Now everything is a surprise, even if I told her something 5 seconds ago. She will say, "Oh!! Why didn't you tell me that?" And sometimes I just say, "Sorry, I must have forgot!" Other times I just don't answer.