I never experienced being dismissed by a doctor except for one. My first rhematologist said I was "noncompliant." I said I was unable to do what she wanted me to do but that didn't make me noncompliant. I didn't seek another rheumatologist but a different one showed up at my next appointment ... I didn't know why and I never asked.

The new rheumatologist and I had a short discussion about starting over and working together. That was all that was needed and she was my rheumatologist for 12 years until I retired. I had to switch to another health care system so she couldn't be my rheumatologist anymore. I still have access to her via MyChart and she would still respond to any questions or concerns I have.

I'm currently being seen by doctors doing a Fellowship in Rheumatology. My former rheumatologist oversees the Fellowship Program so the doctors I see report to her.