@foreverfaithful0925
I agree to not telling children yet. I kept my diagnosis private (only close friends and sister) till I had chemo and hair fell out. Very obvious then. I had Stage 2 estrogen positive cancer, it had spread to few lymph nodes.

My sister had stage 0 and her treatment was remove lump and then estrogen suppression drugs. She was in her 60s.

Every treatment plan is tailored to individual based on many factors; type cancer, age, medical / family history, pre or post menopausal, etc...

If possible, you may want to record your phone call so can re-listen to later.