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@trish70

Hi Rachel, Thank-You! For reaching out to me.
I have no friends. I cry a lot. Just about every day. I’m on disability so I don’t work. The only time I go out is to go to the grocery store. I’m terribly lonely. I can’t afford to live on my own so I live with my mom. When she dies I’ll be homeless. That scares me very much. I take a lot of medication.
I guess I don’t really have any coping skills.
I have a lot of hobbies.. I make beaded jewelry, soap, I work with resin and Simply Earth oils. I journal sometimes. With insomnia I’m up about 20 hours a day. It gets very boring. All my life I’ve just wanted people to like me. But I am always putting my foot in my mouth.. it’s very hard for me to keep any relationship. I’m just so lonely…

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Lonliness is v debilitating as you must know. Please stay connected here and reach out. Do your best to deal w this as it makes the journey more difficult.
Life is so hard. We are here for you

Imm sorry for your situation. I have similar. But I won’t be homeless.
Living with mom has turned out to be my worst pain agravater what are your physical issues?
I have so many I feel like a kook lol
Always nice to connect

Hey Trish, your hobbies sound fun and occupying. Love that for you! Being disabled and limited does make it challenging, but as I've learned from my disability , after no longer being able to work , I really needed to focus on brainstorming and thinking outside of the box. It does get lonely. My mom is disabled and I do a lot of advocating for her. One thing I found through her Medicare insurance is coverage of the organization called Papa Pal. If you have insurance, have you looked into any sort of a visiting group that offers companionship ? How about any volunteer organizations through church or local charities?