@smalone59 I’m sorry that you’re having such a difficult time. I would suggest that you call a university medical center or university teaching hospital or look for a comprehensive medical center in your state. You may have to drive a distance, but your health is worth it!
This might be a good resource for you:
https://autoimmune.org/resource-center/finding-a-physician/
The site also lists large hospitals, that specialize in autoimmune, throughout the country. This site from the autoimmune association lists tips on getting a diagnosis : https://autoimmune.org/resource-center/diagnosis-tips/
I know it’s a long weekend but that gives you a chance to read through all the discussions and make a list of what you want to know. Do you think this site will help?