@irene28025

Welcome to Mayo Connect, it is a helpful caring community. No matter how much you love your grandchild, raising them comes with many challenges as well as rewards and at times can be overwhelming. And at same time, you probably still dealing with grief over death of daughter.

Would you mind sharing some additional information?
How old is your grandson is now?
Does he attend school ?
Beside medications has he been to therapist?

I hope some other parents / grandparents can provide you with some helpful advice.