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@bjk3 - You and I have shared so many similarities in our journeys and you’ve reminded me of the realities we face. I can’t help but to keep a To-Do list (formal) or I’ll forget things! I often think of what @njed coached - Focus on what you CAN do, not CAN’T do. So when I see what things are still on my “list”, I am not so bothered because of the thankfulness I have for the things that got crossed off of it. As you said, budgeting our energy for long term survival is key, so we do this one step at a time! I hope you’re moving along well!

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@dbeshears1 - Debbie - Wow...you are a list maker as well. Nothing goes on my list that I can't do however, I' will put some things on my list that I might be able to do. Call it a challenge. I made a list this AM of things I need to do today, two have a question mark. For me, it means give it a try. We all have good and bad days with PN. If I can't do it, I'll then put it at the top of the next day's list and yes, with a ? For me it makes me push a little beyond my comfort zone yet being safe. No second-floor window washing from a ladder, you get the drift. Keep crossing things off and smile, accomplishments are important and if you don't get to it today, there is always tomorrow. Stay well, keep moving.

Good morning, Debbie. 🌞 We sure have had similarities, haven't we? And that "to do" list is my sanity keeper, as well! When I still see things on my list that have been "deferred", shall we say, I am, like you, "not so bothered because of the thankfulness I have for the things that got crossed off." (Your wording of that thought was PERFECT!!) I've always been a list-keeper on some level but now it is "reminders on steroids" 😉. From what I can gather from everyone close to my age (77), this is common, if not normal, and that eases the gut-wrenching fear of accelerated cognitive diminishment.
After the experience of being in rehab for several weeks a couple of years ago, I am now elated to wake up in the morning and actually HAVE a to-do list to work on, rather than sitting around all day unable to do much of anything except the P.T. and O.T. sessions five days a week. Thankfulness abounds, and it is sites like this and people like you that elicit that are the reason!

Blessings, Barb