Hello, I turned 70 on July 10th. Twenty eight years ago, I had a<br>preventative bi-lateral mastectomy at Mayo Clinic. I later found I was one<br>of the first they had ever done. I chose reconstruction and had nothing<br>but discomfort and pain. Two years ago, I had the implants removed and I<br>am very satisfied and comfortable. I was fitted for double prosthesis and<br>yes, they are hot, however, once used to them, they are not too bad. I<br>have gradually been going without them, and use them mainly for "going out<br>occasions". I had residual skin flaps and I still have my own nipples, but<br>the look is not pretty, in close fitting clothing. I have tried camisoles,<br>and undershirt type things, and the puckering of my clothing across the<br>front, remains. I am gradually learning to live with it, and trying to<br>feel less self-conscious. It is difficult. I am on your journey, my<br>friend. Be brave, is all I can offer you for advice. Cherril<br>