Thank you. No, I am all alone. I didn't even have a car. Driving my mom's small 2 door car. Spent 6 weeks trying to haul her stuff here, sell it, whatever. I finally just had to turn the apartment over with everything left in it--clothes, furniture, most all. They just backed a dumptrump up and threw perfectly good stuff into the landfill. That hurt me.
Now my house I was trying to declutter with all my crap is dangerous to walk through and I needed back surgery so now I am stuck with all this chaos that causes chaos in my head. A huge yard I can't take care of now due to the back. No money to hire people. A house mom left me--well, she had no will, so I spent wks studying probate law to try to do it myself. The house is not in my name yet, I don't have the bank accts she left. Taxes are unpaid because I can't get to her accts yet. Being tagged by the city for high grass. Just a grand finale it seems of a miserable life. Have no idea what to do with all this stuff of hers and now dealing with this health of mine. Just unbelievable. I do not have money for any of this. Just deflated and hopless.

Good to know you had a good outcome with the size of yours. I am reading all these ppl who have smaller ones than us with so many problems. It is just overwhelming. I have been in shock now for 2 months I think between mom's death, what she did by leaving no will and now this.

thanks for sharing that with me. Julie