Now don't laugh but I love going through cemeteries. There is so much history to be found. I'm an intermediate genealogist so the dead are living to me. I talk to my ancestors at FAG (Find a Grave). It's very therapeutic. Now you've got a story: married for 58 years and then meeting up with an old 8th grade male friend. I find that so enchanting. I can read that you've had a very interesting life. Be positive. Just keep telling yourself you are a centenarian in training.