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I don't garden. My husband loved to do it and I let him. Now he is gone and I am alone. I will be 90 on my next birthday. Having trouble getting used to that number. I am extremely fortunate to be healthy at my age. Currently I am having physical therapy for a rotor cuff problem. But that is it. My intention is to stay in my home because I can. When and if I need assistance, I will use caregivers. When you check out the cost for assisted living it is shocking. And the rooms/apartments are so small you will not be able to take any of your own things with you. So that's my plan to age in place.
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Hello MarilynB: I am 88, so fit into this group, I think. I had 2 strokes about 18 months ago and have mostly recovered, except my right foot, leg, and hand are not quite normal. Therefore, I no longer drive. I live in a rural area in my own home alone, with help from a daughter and hubby who live 7 miles away. I have the usual helps here: chair in the shower, arms beside the commode, a bedside commode in the bedroom, a walker nearby if needed and a cane. I have a couple who help with anything I can't do: floors, windows, flower beds, dusting, etc. for $25 an hour each; not bad! Since I don't drive, my daughter takes me everywhere: groceries, library, Church (sometimes), etc. Aging in place is lonely sometimes but I prefer home to anywhere else! My best to you!
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Hello thisismarilynb:
I enjoyed your post. Keep on keeping on. At 83, I already need help around the house. I'm likely due for a new hip this summer if I understand what the MRI is implying. I am in total agreement with staying in my own home as long as possible. I've just had the exterior painted because now I can deal with the decisions needed and I can't predict how I'll be in 5 or 10 years. It will be nice to have the house-painting done! Fortunately, I have a wonderful woman whom I enjoy having here to do the heavy cleaning for a wage I'm willing to pay and she is willing to accept. It is a good arrangement for both of us.