Hi Marilyn - I feel basically the same way! I am 80, living alone, in good health both mentally and physically, and need very little assistance. I have an appointment with my primary care physician this Friday to discuss matters...if I can get him away from the computer!! I grew up on a farm, away from doctors, and experienced every childhood disease known to man at that time...all without medical intervention...and, I survived as well. I also recall stepping on a rusty nail, pulling it out of my foot, washing my foot off with the garden hose, and going to play (barefoot!). Now, my only goal is to remain in my home that I love, remain self-sufficient, and as healthy as possible. But, trying to get muy doctor on board with my goals is a challenge. We will discuss this at our next visit. Wish me luck!