My Life after cancer is confusing in many ways. Why? Because my cancer will never go away. I am 3.5 yeas into survivorship. Still passionate but in different ways. For example my stage 4 prostate cancer teaches me to not focus on how long I will live, but how well I can live. Part of that Well (wellness) includes exercise, nurturing, and sharing tenderness with my wife. She loves hugs, back-rubs, and Beach Boys concerts. Her smile and dimples reactions indicate she appreciate my flirts.