@windyshores @ebtexas55

I am reading all these posts, and can certainly see the merits of all the experiences and thoughts expressed! One thing I can gently suggest, is to look at what the protocols are in the state where your loved one is. There appears to be major differences in palliative care facilities. When we are faced with the need to look at care, it is often at a time of extreme emotional/mental and sometimes physical stress for us. We might not be able to "be there" as much as we would like, and may miss deciding factors, so having information ahead of time, and checking to be sure those same protocols are in place at time of need, could be a big help to us now.
Ginger