Colleen Young had suggested we communicate with each other on March 4, 2019. At that time I was facing an upcoming appointment which I find very difficult. Fortunately, it all went well, but prior to my going to the clinic, I feel almost paralyzed with fear. I wrote to Dale/ @pauldale4 regarding my thinking at this time because I, too, must limit my contact on-line. I do want to reach out to other women who are going through this experience, but I feel my capacity to "make a difference" in any way is minimal at this time. While I once played the role of the strong one in my family, I now often feel incapable of functioning in that capacity. Thank goodness for my wonderful family and friends who are incredibly understanding. I'm hoping to stay in touch with you, but I'm not consistent in my on-line communication like some women. Hope you are doing well.