My emotional / psychological recovery had more to do with the initial diagnosis of cancer and the first surgery and it’s subsequent recovery period. I had a great surgeon, I trusted her unconditionally, so I never worried about the reversal, quite the opposite, I was counting down the days. After the reversal I followed my surgeons instructions to the letter and healed without a problem. The psychological part was anytime I had a little ache, pain, twinge or just plain didn’t feel right, I would worry that something went wrong or the cancer had returned. I didn’t get over that until I had my one later colonoscopy and was assured everything was fine. I still worry from time to time that the cancer will return, but no longer give any thought to something going wrong from the operation. I know it can be difficult to stay positive at times like this, but it sure helps with the your recovery. I wish you only the best and I’m sure your surgery will be a success.