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How do you deal with aging?

Aging Well | Last Active: Oct 2 11:38am | Replies (401)

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Thanks to each of you for your in-depth comments about the realities of aging, that we all share.
I’m 77, and I started losing very close friends about five years ago to Alzheimer’s and cancer. My next younger sister is now battling stage four colon cancer. I’ve had many surgeries; my husband is doing well 11 years after surgery for prostate cancer.
He also says “ keep on keeping on!”
I read an article a few months ago that the mind just cannot see what it would be like if we were not here. Whether or not that’s an unproven the, or mere conjecture, I’d rather be focused on living each day.
Traveling is tough, but it’s not impossible. We have had to cancel trip due to one thing or another, however we always rebooked the same or similar. I like the comment someone made that they’re booking their cruise later in 2025. We love, cruising, and need to book another cruise as well most likely next year! There’s something wonderful about planning and imagining and even packing as part of the overall enjoyment. Creating shared memories is wonderful.

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If I look too far in future it scares me. I tend to live just one day at a time, more so now than just 5 years ago. COVID opened my eyes to the evil in the world that I never thought I would see.

I'm 71 and in good health, exercise every day, eat healthy, see friends, I'm blessed and can't fathom not being able to do this every day. I know my health can change in a blink of an eye and also know the changes in the world today are happening faster and faster, and can only hope that there is never WWIII.
So I tell myself to keep going every day, no matter what, as there will come a time I may not be able to.