There is just so much that even the best neurologist can do. And we share the same incredible neurologist. In-put from rheumatologist and primary care physicians (all having been carefully selected based on their expertise, background, etc., same as done with neurologist) meets with a stone wall since again there is "just so much" that can be done. From past experiences, neurologists are quick to prescribe gapapentin and antidepressants that also are said to combat nerve pain. And past experiences have led us to say "No thanks" to that line of "treatment."
"There are avenues" that we explore, and decisions made as to which, if any, are worthwhile investing in and exploring. There is NO cure for many conditions, such as those that we both unfortunately deal with. So there does come the point when we face what we have, employ strategies, etc., that best work at reducing pain, discomfort, and learn to work around it within our lives.

TODAY is actually a "good day" for both of us! I retired early last night (before 9PM), coping with full body Pain Level 10/10 from one of my more serious painful conditions polymalgia rheumatica. This morning, I was able to stand, walk (taking small steps at first), and enjoy my coffee and GF bagel because pain had subsided down to a more tolerable 6/10. I was HAPPY with that! My husband had a fitful night due to neuralgic pain but slept a bit later and this morning was able to slowly emerge from the pain fog he'd been in. He's chipper, able to ambulate, and eager to accompany me to do a few short errands in our town because his feet are not cascading in neuropathic pain. When we return, we will both elevate our legs (I haven't bought a recliner yet so will use ottoman; he'll use his recliner) and rest while watching an early newscast. Having rested, I can then go into the kitchen and prepare a simple but "healthful" meal that we'll share. TODAY IS INDEED BETTER than was yesterday! And we celebrate and appreciate that😊.