My son and I had a recent experience with my wife and it was very difficult for all of us. As it turns out,my wife was not ready for memory care so the stay only lasted 12 days. We had expected her to settle in but she devolved each day. We told her it was for her own safety but that did not help. I know each person and facility is different so I wish you the best. Your husband sounds well beyond where my wife is on the timeline.