Here are some things to keep in mind. The ladies you mentioned may have had different treatments so it's difficult to compare. (My first with very aggressive drugs had no negative effects on me; those came later). Everyone is different and will react differently. This forum predominantly attracts people with issues looking for answers, so you most likely won't hear from all of those people who made it through more easily. You don't so much as hint at what you are facing, so it's difficult to know how to answer this. I'm struggling because I was diagnosed at Stage 3 which required more aggressive treatment. Also I'm overweight and tend to prefer sedentary hobbies like reading and needlework. Lots of things I would do differently. You should have a much better experience as you seem to be very active. Keeping active and taking an active role in your treatment, communicating with your doctor and nurses, asking questions can really improve outcome. The number one thing is to advocate for yourself; there is no one better. But also be good to yourself.