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Surgery, radiation, prognosis questions about my dad

Lung Cancer | Last Active: Jul 8 1:47pm | Replies (15)

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@supportfordad, Welcome to Mayo Connect. I have to agree with the others, it's too soon to speculate on a prognosis. We don't know how he will respond to treatment, and everyone is different. Use only trusted sources if you are searching the internet. Try to focus on what you can do to help him. You may need to let your dad know that you have additional questions related to the treatment plan, and side effects. Ask him if it's ok to talk those through at his next oncology appointment with your dad in the room. If your dad objects to talking about prognosis, then respect that decision. Some people are never ready for that conversation. It is often helpful for the caregiver to be able to ask questions focused on treatment and side-effects. It's an overwhelming time for both of you, he may appreciate someone else jumping in and asking those questions. Does he seem open to letting you help him navigate this new world?
I was diagnosed 4 years ago. My first symptoms were related to enlarged hilar lymph nodes. Is he experiencing and/or managing symptoms related to the lymph nodes?

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Hi Lisa,
Thank you for this information. I read it when you first posted it and have taken your advice. I talked to my dad about how he wanted my help. He has since been asking more questions during the visits. If his doctor says something that I don’t understand I ask for clarification since my parents are probably wondering, too. It has been better.
The treatments are causing fatigue, but he has been a trooper. Not an easy one to keep down.
Thank you for sharing where you are in your cancer diagnosis and treatment. It definitely helps knowing how others are doing.
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