I fully understand what you are saying. I have scarves from the past 50 years that I thought I would use. Alas, my scarf tying ability is severely lacking :). Tried to post some photos but they only liked my bald one & that is not so much fun for progression. Am not that computer savvy to make the photos friendlier 🙁 It is hard to find a hair stylist that will "trim" a wig. Found a really nice local lady & she did okay but not my favorite. Do check out Paula Young & you will not want for mail 😉