So relate! My husband-at age 70-has heart failure. He came in one evening after his daily 4-mile power walk and said "I can't breathe." Since then we have a troop of doctors who do not collaborate. His medications are more than our mortgage and we spend a lot of time searching the world for cheaper drugs, and also dealing with Medicare, Humana, etc...I have been healthy enough to organize( excel spreadsheet ) his appointments, medications, drive him to appts until recently. I have severe tendonitis in right (driving) leg) and am unable to drive. I am now getting other health issues and trying to navigate public transportation in our area. Recently, I noticed that my primary care doc posted a sign that reads "only two issues per visit." My ortho doc spent 5 minutes with me (I timed it), told me I need total knee surgery. When I asked him about post-op care, he said go to the website. That was it.